
Thanksgiving was a wonderfully lazy day. We all slept in and for breakfast, Steve made “crepes” (pronounced with a strong German accent) filled with compote and topped with whip cream. We watched a little bit of the Macy’s day parade and started a game of monopoly. When it warmed up to 42 degrees, we bundled up and went to the park. We played frisbee golf, football and baseball. I tried to get a picture of a bald eagle perched in a nearby tree…but the result was a brown blob on a branch. Baseball and football proved to be a slippery mess. After Andrew had taken a few slides in the mud, he was ready to go home and get warm. In dry clothes, he snuggled up on the coach and watched a video on Squanto, the Native American that helped the Pilgrims on the first Thanksgiving.
Our Thanksgiving dinner was a little quirky. Stephanie, the school’s English and my voice student, invited us to Thanksgiving dinner two weeks prior to the day. I eagerly accepted and asked her to let me know what I could bring. Over the next two weeks I got sick, Steve was gone and play rehearsals were in full swing. When Steve returned, an intense school board meeting left everybody whirling. I was so preoccupied that I didn’t have time to over think Thanksgiving. I just assumed it would all fit my mental expectations. (that was the first mistake) The day before Thanksgiving at four o’clock in the afternoon, Stephanie approached Steve and I in the main office with the hopes of brainstorming of what to do and eat for Thanksgiving. We passed some kid friendly ideas around and then she said that she needed to fill her husband, Ben, the Science teacher, in on all of it and get his opinion. It was six o’clock and still no call from Stephanie. We had no groceries in the house; the grocery store closed at seven and was not open the next day and had declined to other invitations. I was feeling pretty bummed. I really wanted to be out of the house for the holidays. But being sick, the play rehearsals, intense school board meetings, and not wanting to be presumptuous…I let the days go by and I wasn’t prepared. So, I suggested that we call them and ask them if we could just come for dessert. No matter how badly I wanted to be aprt of someone’s family chaos, we couldn’t, in good faith, at accept the other invitations we had received. We scavenged through our frig and freezer and came up with some “prize” dishes. Our Thanksgiving dinner was a simple meal of cabbage salad (Tricia’s pick), scalloped potatoes (Andrew’s pick) and chicken (Steve’s pick, by default.) We walked up to Ben, Stephanie and Jordon’s (their 11 year-old daughter) house with warm brownies, ice cream, chocolate sauce and the “toxic-red-dye” maraschino cherries that Grandma sent Andrew in the mail. They had made a delicious berry and kiwi cobbler. We indulged in dessert, tea and interesting conversation and Andrew’s bonus was playing with Jordon’s cool Lego collection.
It turned out to be a beautifully full day and helped me to appreciate the simplicity of just being together.
I have included some pictures from Andrew’s “Author’s Tea” that Mrs. Bidiman held for her students. Andrew and his classmate read out loud the stories they wrote for the school children in Belize. After their presentation, they served us baked apples and hot cocoa.
We are most grateful for our friends and family. We hope you had a beautiful holiday and may the next few weeks until Christmas be filled with a God’s comforting peace and love.

















